Re-Membering Matters
Considering our last year is an act of remembering, or re-membering. I recall at my father's funeral the pastor told us to re-member Dad--to put the stories together like squares on a quilt. The quilt will keep you warm in the sad days ahead, he suggested. I just love the idea and I've found it to be true!
The goal in this particular end-of-the-year exercise is not simply to re-member good things (and it's wonderful when we do!), but to consider our reality (thus the prompts) and how it intersects with God's reality (thus the invitation at the end). That's where transformation occurs: at the intersection of our reality and God's reality. I like to re-mind myself who God is: kind, unhurried, creative, generous, holy, crazy with love for us!
So, find some time to consider your reality from 2022 and re-member who God is. Here are a few prompts I created and gathered from other resources:
What are the most important events that have happened to me or in me this past year?
As I think over the past year, what has been my greatest joy in my life with God? Where did I experience peace, happiness, contentment, shalom, serenity, beauty?
What gains have I experienced this year? Name them here:
As I think over the past year, what was my greatest struggle in my life with God? Where did I experience preoccupation, distress, sadness, depression, anxiety, fear, shame?
What losses have I experienced this year? Name them here:
The most significant spiritual experiences, lessons, or insights that I’m taking with me into next year are (consider books, sermons, resources, practices and/or people):
As I look ahead to the coming months what comes to mind? (Consider what feelings also arise.)
What do I sense God is inviting me to know, feel, see, remember?
(If you'd like a fuller set of questions for every area of your life, HERE is a great resource and one I borrowed some ideas from.)
JUDY